Have you ever heard of the crabmagoo theory?! Well most likely you have felt it in some way or another or may just maybe you might have done it your self. Now of course the real name is some what lengthy but I prefer the crabmagoo theory! What I mean is this, when you begin to do something great in your life or accomplish something worthy of a little joy or excitement there is always someone who sees your attempts to escape the bucket and tries to pull you down. It sounds crazy doesn't it?! Well sadly enough crabs will continually pull each other down not wanting to let the other one go or to escape. We sometimes catch that little bit of fever and do the same or have been victimized in the same manner. If you are that person who is diligently trying to overcome your situation, trying to be a better person or for that matter just living out your dreams and hopes when suddenly someone comes along and tries to yank you back down into the bucket with the rest of the crabs, just remember you don't have to be there. Fight with every bit, every ounce of who you are and keep reaching higher and if those friends try to pull you down again, it just might be time to let go of that friend. Their selfishness may supersede their intent to be what all good friends ought to be, encouraging, loving, thoughtful and caring.
It never feels good to let a friendship go but sometimes there are seasons for friendships, for laughter, for pain, for so many things and life is messy. Don't take their baggage with you, just let it go and carry onward, you have victory in the waiting so press forward and don't give up! True friends will come along and you will forget all about the momentary pain of a friendship that once was...
True friends are made of the best ingredients, love, patients, mercy, kindness, courage and so much more, their welcome never ends!
Here is one of my favourite songs about friendship and it is worth the listen.
Friends ~ By Michael W Smith
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IbPKaIozS-c
Thanks for your encouraging words about pressing on with hopes and dreams :) I do agree that you need to let a person go if their actions are toxic in your life but at the same time I do believe that sometimes God wants us to persist with some friends that aren't acting like friends, showing them how a good friend should act and praying that their conscious will speak to them. Liked the pic!
ReplyDeleteI think it is a decision that should never be taken lightly. There are times when we should be patient with others and remain faithful and then sometimes when we feel like we are drowning in their selfish behaviours or what have you, then decisions must be made for our own benefit so that new friends may be blessed. It all takes wisdom either way. :) You are very right Daisy and your comment is well thought out!
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